within yourself that you have built against it.”
― Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heartfelt Advice for Hard Times
I've noticed that as I sit at the keyboard to muse about the Practice each Thursday morning, there is a particular quality of consciousness that emerges. Although there are certainly moments of befuddlement and confusion, sometimes swaths of time in which I stammer and stumble ahead haltingly, only to hit the backspace key and take a few steps back again and again, it seems that I generally return to being quite aware of a space beyond any of the thoughts find their way into my fingers. I generally spend many moments being aware of Awareness itself. I like it when that happens.
There is a problem with it, though.
In reading over some of my past posts this past week, I found myself wondering if I was too quick to present the high side of a Life of Practice without acknowledging how very difficult and challenging it can be to truly open one's heart to the reality of the human condition as it is actually lived in our day to day lives. It seems to me that I can spend a bit too much airtime raving about the fact that Life is Miraculous and Beautiful, not enough time acknowledging that Life Sucks.
That Life Sucks is, after all, the first Noble Truth of Buddhism. Suffering, according to the Buddha, is a basic characteristic of human existence. It is woven into the fabric of Life itself. I believe that Jesus was also getting at this when he proclaimed "Blessed be those who mourn."
So, although I am quite grateful for the many moments of magic that grace each day, and quite clear that the Practice continuously supports me to experience that, I also am quite clear that to apprehend the Real Deal, I've had to open my heart and mind to the incontrovertible reality that each of us will die. I've had to accept that each of us will be hurt, both emotionally and physically, along the way. I've had to see clearly that even in good health and good spirits, we all are likely to experience a myriad of disappointments and dis-satisfactions amidst the mundane realities of our day to day life.
There will be springlike days. There will be days with sub-zero wind chills. Sometimes it's one step forward. Sometimes one step back.
Oops. I was about to start raving about the Miraculous and the Beautiful again.